Just a Thought:

Criticizing your partner is ultimately speaking ill of yourself. Because you do your own personal casting and made the choice to be in the relationship, or worse remain complaining about being with the wrong person instead of taking action. People, lets refrain from making these kind of negative statements about your significant others. It would make a world of difference in their lives and in yours as well to change the conversation from negative to positive. If a mistake has been made there should be no guilt and no remorse. All experiences should be taken as a lesson and immediate action is required to modify existing behavior and therefore obtain different and satisfactory results